HELP: My wife’s breasts are sagging and I have no interest in having sex with her. what Should I do?

Dear Amina,

Please  help me, I’m 31 she is 29 and we are married for 7 years with 2 daughters.

I noticed that my sex drive has declined significantly in the last two years.
It could be stress although it was bad also on times when I wasn’t stressed.
I ran a blood test and my testosterone levels are even a bit above average.

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Other than the low sex drive, since the first pregnancy my wife’s body has gotten much less attractive than it was back in the day when I also had crazy high sex drive due to being very young.

I’m having a very hard time getting over this, especially the small saggy breasts that used to be those perky c cups back then and used to attract me into sexual activity all the time.
Now, the breasts are not only not attractive but actually getting me repulsed (sorry if it sounds harsh but I can’t blame my mind/hormones for what they feel when seeing it).
We have talked about it openly (not about the fact that this is one of the major low interest in sex catalysts) but about the fact that her breasts bother her also.

She even suggested to get a breast lift/fill and I have told her that I would never want her to do that for me but she said that she wanted it BUT she wants at least two more kids (one of them very soon) and she will probably have to go through the lift/fill again after the next pregnancy

So right now the bottom line is that I have no interest in having sex with her and she gets mad at me for not taking care of this as she suggested to go to marriage counseling.
The thing is that I know the main reason for my low sexual interest but the last thing that I want to do is tell her that it’s because of her body which is something that she can’t change right now (as mentioned above).

Any suggestions  please?

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11 thoughts on “HELP: My wife’s breasts are sagging and I have no interest in having sex with her. what Should I do?

  1. Nothing New under the earth, if her breast is sag take your eyes away from the sagged breast and focussed your gazed on her curves and butt till she get her breast back. Weldon Aminat for the job you doing, keep it up.

  2. Nothing New under the earth, if her breast is sag take your eyes away from the sagged breast and focussed your gazed on her curves and butt till she get her breast back. Weldon Aminat for the job you doing, keep it up.

  3. I will advice the husband to go for a marriage counseling and whenever he want to have sex he should imagine the breast are the same as it was then when they got marriage or think of something else while having sex with it.

  4. The husband should take his eyes off her breast and focus on her other body parts, her breasts can't be his only turn on on her body unless the man is not saying the truth.

  5. The man should close his eyes to her breast, unless he is trying to tell that he is no more in love with her

  6. That is what happens especially when he married her due to her breast.

    He needs to get over it and love her for how she is because its nature and not her will

  7. You piece of trash. I hope you spend many years alone. Freak. Who cares that her breasts sag a little. Your balls smell and sag as well. Puke die.

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