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  1. There is this beautiful girl in my church I have being asking and she opened up to me that she has being crushing on me but issue is dat my eldest bro got to her before me and is asking her out with intent to marry her. She told me dat but dat she is not interested in him because the age difference is much btw the two of them. He is still pushing and she is running to me, if not for chance she ready for me to enter Jerusalem but we r both busy. The issue nw is that my elder is different mother from me, and if I date her he will feel I'm the one dat spoilt his chance. I like the n she is my spec, pls what do u guys think? Pls help me

    1. This is a very simple issue.

      I remember when i was very young,my older brother wooed a lady and she told him point blank that she would prefer me to him but i guess my holy holy nature did not make me go into the affair even when my brother opined that i go ahead to be with her.

      Now the question is not about whether she is interested in your brother or not but HAS SHE AGREED TO GO OUT WITH HIM?

      Has she said yes to his dating interest? If yes then forget her totally.

      If she has not said yes to his dating proposal then let her tell him straight up that she is already into an emotional affair with you and you are well aware and with this you are free to have your girl and i hope you dont break her heart.

      My humble advice

    2. If you love the girl, go for her. You have your life to live likewise your brother has his own also. You shouldn't let people determines your happiness.

    3. This is a very simple issue.

      I remember when i was very young,my older brother wooed a lady and she told him point blank that she would prefer me to him but i guess my holy holy nature did not make me go into the affair even when my brother opined that i go ahead to be with her.

      Now the question is not about whether she is interested in your brother or not but HAS SHE AGREED TO GO OUT WITH HIM?

      Has she said yes to his dating interest? If yes then forget her totally.

      If she has not said yes to his dating proposal then let her tell him straight up that she is already into an emotional affair with you and you are well aware and with this you are free to have your girl and i hope you dont break her heart.

      My humble advice

  2. I dnt stay in same state with my fiancée, I tried calling his fone I was getting netwk busy then checked him on whatsup I could not see his display picture, that was wen I knew he has blocked me. I then used my oda line to check his whatsup lo and behold I saw a pix of him and a gal.
    He later call me after two days and told me his sorry that he went to his village and there was no lite there. I told him is a lie that he has been online for d pass two days and he denied it, I then sent him a chat with my oda line. he started apologizing saying is d devil work. that he dnt want me to leave. What do I do
    Please help me @ Amiloaded & Toks2008

  3. I have been in a relationship for a while now but I noticed that whenever I annoy my man and I beg for forgiveness even when he claims he has forgiven, It takes him like two to three weeks to still speak to me after much persuasion. I am tired of always begging him to talk to me. I don't know what else to do, I am a very play full person and he takes everything I say to heart even when I tell him I don't mean it. He now feels I intensionally annoy and mock him. I don't know who to turn to or what to do anymore

  4. Thanks for sharing your issue.

    First i would like to know the age of the guy and yours because often times age usually plays a vital role in the schematics of our affairs.

    I wouldd also like to know how long you have been dating him and finally i would like to know those things you do sometimes that get him pissed to the extent of him going into an incommunicado mode with you.

    Please feed me with these details as soon as you can.

    Thanks

  5. Hello Uncle Toks,

    What do you do when your woman is practically living under your skin… What I mean is, when my girl is with me, she's always on my body, she hardly gives me breathing space, y'know.
    I've talked to her severally about it, she just can't stop.

    I teased her one day that, if we eventually get married, we'll have our separate rooms…

    Ha… She started crying like seriously, she doesn't buy that idea… A man need some little space y'know.

    Asked her one day…

    Me: what if you caught me cheating on you, will you leave me?

    Babe: No! the only thing that will make me leave you is when you raise your hand and beat me

  6. I will suggest you give him some space when you are together, try to be busy with some other thing like pressing your phone and see if he won't be the one coming to be on your skin. But on the other hand try to reduce it too much of thing is not good. Thanks

  7. First go and do thanks giving to GOD for giving you such a lady and then pray she does not change because trust me, some guys who value genuine affection will pray to have such a lady.

    I must also commend your lady for her apt wisdom because i always tell ladies that there are two main reasons i will endorse a lady leaving a guy and that will be unrepentant reckless cheat with impunity and a man that beats you.

    While i could stil ask a woman to manage the former,i will never advice any lady to stay with a man that makes her a punching bag.
    If a man beats you once,ignore it but if a man beats you teh second time then its a habit he will definitely do again and again.

    As for your lady if i can get across to her i will tell her to give you some space because men do need space and to get engaged in very productive stuffs that will allow her give you lots of space but whenever she is with you i do not see any reason why she should let you be and i believe that if you truly love her,you should enjoy that.

    My humble advice

  8. Pls i need your advice,anytime we have issues,
    1.my girlfriend talks to her ex,she just cant let her ex go..and that has always been our problem..she did it once and we fot and i forgave her,she stil did it again..shes 24 and am 30
    2.she has a bestie dat is too wild,she once fought her but now they ar now back together.the bestie is not too happy wit our relationship and has tried 2 separate us once,at a time,she was giving guys her num.how do i separate them witout hurting my girls feelings.thanks

    1. Thanks for sharing

      I really can't put my finger on why your girlfriend will still relate with her ex and the only understanding i have here is that they are not truly exes especially when she does that whenever you guys have issues.

      What she is doing now is having an emotional affair with her ex and trust me man, she is probably stil very much into her ex and i will advice you to look elsewhere while you allow her time to find her feet and GOD help her you find someone new who is ready to be with you and remain dedicated to you and you alone before she snaps out of her delusion then that is her call.

      You are 30 for petes sake and this is not the time to be with a lady who still carries the baggage of her past with her so bro i advice you just let her be and look for another lady who will be ready to be totally involved with you physically and emotionally.

      Unfortunately you can not separate your girlfriend from her bestie but you can only tell her in a subtle manner why you think the bestie will be a bad influence on her and she just might get the message and do the needful.

      If you believe you love her too much for you to find another lady who will be committed to you alone emotionally then be ready for an unpleasant surprise should you find out that she is still seeing the ex or when she probably goes back to her ex because she just might be using you as a get back partner to spite her ex the way Nicky minaj is probably using meek to spite Safaree whereas all pointers show that her heart is still very much with Safaree or she might also be using you as a fall back guy so that if eventually she is now sure her ex has really forgotten about her,she will now decide fully to pitch her tent with you.

      My humble advice

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